During preschool age, some children are susceptible to obsessive-compulsive disorder. This is a child’s reaction to some psychological trauma or situations of various kinds. Why preschoolers? At this age, children are already striving to become independent, and adults, in their opinion, are extremely hindering them in this. Because of this condition, the child’s behavior deteriorates greatly. The syndrome also negatively affects his mental development. What should parents do in this case? How to understand what it is - obsessive-compulsive disorder in children? Let's try to answer these and other exciting questions.
Causes of neuroses
If parents do not know the causes of obsessive-compulsive disorder in children, they will not be able to prevent the occurrence of this problem. The degree of manifestation of the syndrome directly depends on the age of the child, on the nature of the situation that caused its appearance, on how deeply this situation hurt the child. Psychologists are sure that the most common reasons are the following:
- Various psychological traumas that could arise both in the family and in kindergarten.
- Unfavorable family environment (too frequent quarrels, divorce).
- Perhaps the parents made a mistake in their upbringing.
- A change of place of residence may affect the occurrence of this condition (moving to a new apartment, changing a preschool institution).
- The syndrome occurs when excessive physical or emotional stress is placed on the child’s body.
- Perhaps the child suffered a severe fright.
This classification can be called conditional, since all children are different. Each of them reacts differently to one or another life situation. But experts are confident that it is these reasons that become the causative agents of serious changes in the behavior and psyche of preschool children, and later lead to neurosis. Parents need to pay attention to any changes in the child's behavior. If you do not start treatment on time, then it will be more difficult to cope with neurosis.
It is worth noting that children who have an increased level of anxiety are especially susceptible to this condition. Their main features are: timidity, suggestibility, touchiness, suspiciousness. If you place excessive demands on such a child, you can hurt his pride. It will be extremely difficult for him to endure any failures, even the most insignificant ones.
OCD in children: why it happens and how to treat it
— What should parents of a child with OCD not do under any circumstances?
- First. Do not attribute manifestations of OCD to your own account. For some people, obsessions may be directed at other people, for example, “Mom, do you love me?”, “Mom, won’t you give me to anyone?”, “Mom, am I bad?”
Second. Provocative or aggressive behavior is unacceptable: “If you say that again, I’ll give you away!”, “If you say that again, I’ll really poison you!”, “You’ve got me!” This will only lead to increased problems for the child.
Physical aggression, despite its apparent immediate effectiveness (some parents practice it, unfortunately), can lead to self-aggression in the future. For example, parents hit a child who cannot step over the threshold, and he takes a step. The parents created intense emotions for the child, which overwhelmed his anxiety, but did not remove his fear. And a person learns to cope with his anxieties and fears with the help of pain. In the worst case scenario, this can lead to self-harm in order to cope with anxiety.
Third. Under no circumstances should you refuse treatment.
OCD can sometimes be quiet and unnoticeable to others. For example, a teenager spends a little more time in the bathroom, a child repeats the same thing several times, he has strange habits, and loved ones perceive this as eccentricities. Because of this, it seems that there is nothing wrong and there is no need to treat. At the same time, a terrible struggle for the absence of discomfort may occur inside a person; very unpleasant or disturbing obsessions come to his mind, which may not clearly manifest themselves outwardly, but for a child or teenager this is everyday hell. Either the child is too punctual, comes on time, tries to do everything according to the rules, studies with excellent marks - and in such a situation, parents begin to doubt the need for treatment. While the desire to do everything perfectly is one of the symptoms of obsessive-compulsive disorder.
Sometimes the refusal to treat a child is based on the parents’ own internal anxiety. It can be expressed in the conviction that “chemistry” (pharmaceuticals) is harmful, and only what grows in a garden bed or in the forest is useful. This is nothing more than their own attempt to control the processes of life and death, because of which parents refuse to help their children (do not give them the medications they need).
Some parents refuse to take their children to psychotherapy because going to therapy means admitting that there are problems in your family. And because of fear or prejudice of parents, children do not get the help they need.
How neurosis manifests itself
What are the symptoms of obsessive-compulsive disorder in children? How should parents react to them? Psychologists say that neurosis can manifest itself as follows:
- The child often has the same disturbing thought.
- He performs involuntary actions repeatedly.
- So-called complex behavioral actions may be observed.
If you notice such actions on the part of your child, it is better to contact a specialist to confirm or refute your fears.
Obsessive neurosis
Obsessive-compulsive neurosis is a psychiatric illness that is accompanied by frequent intrusive anxious thoughts. Patients do not have the ability to suppress them on their own. As a result, the problem is only beginning to gradually gain momentum and get even worse. People suffering from this disease often begin to perform peculiar rituals. For example, opening doors a certain number of times, turning lights on and off in a given rhythm. But a person fully understands the inadequacy of his actions and their negative consequences, but at the same time he cannot stop himself, repeating “traditions” again and again.
Intrusive thoughts
Most often, children experience obsessive fear. A child may be very afraid of the dark or visiting a doctor; some are afraid to go to kindergarten, thinking that their mother will not pick them up from there. Many children have a fear of confined spaces. Some people can't stay alone in the room. Quite often, a child may have the idea that his parents do not love him at all and want to leave him. Against the backdrop of such thoughts, they refuse to attend kindergarten. Some people, when they join a new team, think that no one wants to be friends with them.
Origin of the disease
The emerging personality of a toddler depends on many internal and external factors, which, in turn, under certain circumstances cause a similar disease. The main reasons are:
- Socio-cultural are related to the problems of life in large cities. The occurrence of psychoneurosis can be associated with a lack of the required amount of time for proper rest.
- Socio-psychological ones are associated with emotional isolation of the baby, for example, long house arrest or conflicts. Another difficulty occurs in prosperous families. Only group therapy will create positive conditions for the formation of children.
- Socio-economic arises in the absence of the required conditions for comfortable living. At the same time, mothers often go about their own business and do not devote the required amount of time. Also, the child may lack things that his peers have. Recently, socio-economic has become much more common.
Somatic pathologies that have a direct impact on the nervous system are quite important. Increased sensitivity to psychological influences determines that the child reacts sharply to even minor control from the outside world.
Recently, doctors are increasingly paying attention to the fact that a symptom of prolonged use of the Internet disrupts the central nervous system. This is associated with a large flow of various information; it is almost impossible to protect children from sources of fear and emotional distress.
Repeated actions
Repeated actions that gradually develop into a neurosis of obsessive movements are quite common in preschool age. It is not difficult to notice such actions, since the child quite often stomps his feet, waves his head, or shudders. This syndrome can manifest itself in frequent nose sniffing. Some children twirl their hair or bite their nails, blink rapidly, or snap their fingers. There are preschoolers who are very interested in personal hygiene: they sniffle more often to wipe their nose, wash their hands even if this is not necessary, and constantly adjust their hair or clothes.
It is impossible to list all the symptoms of obsessive movements, since each child manifests itself differently. But parents should know that frequently repeated movements are a reason to watch their child and provide him with timely help.
Obsessive rituals
Some cases of obsessive-compulsive disorder in preschool children are particularly complex. At this stage, obsessive movements become a real ritual for the child. Usually, these are certain movements that are repeated from time to time. For example, a child may walk around an object only on the right or only on the left, or before eating he needs to clap his hands several times, etc.
With such complex forms of neuroses, a deterioration in the general condition of the child is observed. The baby loses peace, becomes irritable, cries a lot, and often throws hysterics at his parents. His sleep is getting worse and he is tormented by nightmares. Appetite and ability to work also noticeably decrease, the child feels unwell, becomes lethargic, and communicates little with others. All this leaves its mark on relationships with relatives and friends, and the child risks being left alone with his problem.
When does dysmorphophobia develop in adolescents?
There can be many reasons for the occurrence of a disorder. The adolescent psyche initially has the properties of exaggerating problems and being critical of one’s appearance.
Acceleration often causes obsessive fears about appearance in girls. In young men, on the contrary, dysmorphophobia develops against the background of developmental delay (especially if this is very noticeable among peers).
During this period, a negative comment regarding any external flaw (height, weight, muscles, facial features) or focusing attention on it is enough. Experiences reinforced by a combination of typical causes of body dysmorphic disorder can give rise to obsessive states.
Is therapy needed?
If some parents think that the problem will disappear on its own, they are deeply mistaken. On the contrary, the lack of response to children’s problems further aggravates this condition of children. Experts in this field argue that it is necessary to begin an immediate fight against the causes that caused the syndrome of obsessive movements and thoughts. After all, this is not a disease, but a mental disorder. If you don’t overcome it in childhood, it will definitely remind you of itself later. If parents are truly interested in the fate of their child, then they will notice changes in their child’s behavior at an early stage and seek help. An experienced psychologist should determine the causes of this condition and then prescribe a course of therapy.
Causes of dysmorphophobia in adolescents
The main cause of dysmorphophobia is genetic predisposition.
Psychiatrists also identify the following groups of reasons:
- Physiological. Anomalies in the development of brain areas, impaired neurohumoral regulation, low levels of the joy hormone serotonin.
- Personal. Natural shyness, tendency to complexes, perfectionism, lack of self-confidence.
- Sociocultural. For example, the imposition of beauty standards through the media.
Treatment of neuroses
Methods for the treatment and prevention of such ailments have been known for quite a long time and show good results after application. But a positive outcome is possible only if the parents turn to a specialist for help in time. During treatment, the psychologist gets to know his patient, studies his personality and psychological characteristics. It is important for a specialist to know the child’s temperament type, the level of his mental development, and the characteristics of his perception. The time it takes for full treatment is determined by the degree of the disorder.
If the form of neurosis is mild, then the specialist does general strengthening exercises with the child and uses various psychotherapeutic techniques in his work. With neurosis, the child’s mental and behavioral reactions are disrupted. To restore them, complex treatment is necessary. It will include not only psychotherapeutic techniques, but also various medications. The sedatives “Glycine”, “Persen”, the drug “Milgamma” as a source of vitamin B, the drugs “Cinnarizine” and “Asparkam”, which improve blood supply to the brain, can be prescribed.
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Recovery in hospital (round the clock, complex, tests)
The arrival of the first differences becomes the motive for seeking help from a neurologist. The specialist examines and examines the baby. Drug treatment is prescribed extremely rarely, in most cases for cellular and other interruptions.
The diagnosis of “neurosis” is carried out in several stages. The sequence is as follows:
- To find the required answer, central nervous system destruction and genetic defects are first tested. This kind of precedent is extremely rare. Genetic abnormalities can only be identified through complex examinations. Therefore, you need to contact a clinic that specializes in solving this kind of difficulty.
- Some signs indicate the consequences of injuries or the onset of other serious illnesses. Examples are severe influenza, encephalitis, traumatic brain injury and others. At this stage, the disease associated with the dysfunction is determined, for which different tests and analyzes are carried out.
- The most common difficulty is discord that arises due to dramatic situations. Even conflicts in the yard or frequent quarrels influence her. The assessment is made through ongoing communication.
Collection of tests is carried out to search for ailments, which turn into a motive for the release of mental disorder.
Psychotherapy is the most common method. The hospital has the following characteristics:
- The patient is under constant observation.
- Groups are being created. Communication with peers has a beneficial effect on consciousness.
- The drug is used in extreme or neglected cases.
Inpatient treatment is prescribed in isolated cases when the home does not provide the proper environment. After the difficult period has passed, the child will be able to return to his normal existence.
Complications
The great danger of obsessive-compulsive neurosis is that the disease lasts quite a long time and also has some complications. More often this happens to those children whose parents did not consider it necessary to seek help. Because of this behavior of adults, the child will experience serious personality changes, which will no longer be possible to get rid of. And some symptoms can harm the baby and his physical health.
- There are children who begin to bite their nails during neurosis. Many people chew their nail plate until they bleed.
- Other children prefer to bite their lips.
- Some people fiddle with zippers and twist buttons, thereby ruining their clothes.
Features of the technique
When carrying out the techniques, certain techniques are used:
- The specialist models various situations that greatly frighten the child so that he can “live” his fear and understand that there is no reason to worry. This relieves anxiety.
- The child is taught to manage his emotions. The specialist teaches him to suppress his anxiety and deal with emerging aggression. This is necessary to rid the baby of obsessive thoughts and movements.
- The child is placed in the company of peers, parents, and educators so that he learns to communicate with others.
- Consultations for parents are required to eliminate the source of neurosis. Indeed, in most cases the problem lies in the family. Therefore, it is necessary to adjust the relationship between relatives and reconsider the methods of education.
- There is a need to adjust the preschooler’s thoughts and emotions, as well as his behavior. For this purpose psycho-gymnastics is carried out.
To quickly cure neurosis and eliminate all its consequences, it is necessary for parents and competent specialists to work together.
Prevention
By considering each factor that becomes a stimulus for the phenomenon of neurological abnormalities, it is possible to develop effective prevention. The most popular recommendations are:
- Development should not lag behind the evolution of peers. Otherwise, he will feel inferior, this will lead to complexes. To do this you need to work with him.
- There should be a favorable environment in the family. You can count on positive success only if there are no scandals at home.
- In the modern world, a change in consciousness occurs under the control of the Internet and gadgets. The strongest natural antidepressant is prolonged exposure to fresh air and active recreation.
- Periodic frank conversations will allow him to promptly identify fears and help him overcome them.
In most cases, no prophylaxis is required. If your blood does not show any reaction to the influence of the surrounding world, stressful situations, then it is enough to provide a favorable environment at home and psychosthenia will not appear.
If appropriate therapy was carried out independently under the supervision of medical staff in youth after 8 years, then it will disappear almost without a trace. If the indicators appeared in childhood from 3 to 6 years, then they appear in the period 8-11 years. Obsessive treatment can be carried out at any age, but later withdrawal is more difficult.
Even in the most difficult cases, one should not forget that psychosthenia is treatable and in almost all cases its indicators are reversible. A preschooler can fully recover and return to normal life. Various clinics have developed their own methods, which are characterized by their own characteristics. Therefore, before applying, you need to study the plan in detail.
It is much easier to prevent than to eliminate it later, so it is necessary to create the most comfortable living conditions. Otherwise, the existing pathology will not be treated and will lead to complications.
Parents' actions
To solve this problem, you should not rely only on the help of a specialist. The parents themselves also need to take some action. You can try treating obsessive-compulsive disorder neurosis in children at home, using folk remedies to combat such ailments, but this can only be done after consultation with specialists.
- It is recommended to prepare decoctions of mint, chamomile, and valerian root to bring the baby’s nervous system back to normal.
- Before going to bed, you can give your child a honey drink to make his sleep sounder and more peaceful.
- In the evening, the child is given soothing baths with the addition of chamomile or calendula.
- Parents must also constantly work on their own behavior and reconsider family relationships.
- It is recommended to read fairy tales with a good ending to your child before bed.
- You can turn on music for your child and invite him to dance. This way he can throw out all the emotions that have accumulated during the day.
- Try drawing with your children. Many children like to express their inner state on paper.
- Treat your child to his favorite foods.
I would like to dwell in more detail on the preparation of decoctions and infusions.
To prepare a honey drink you will need: 500 milliliters of boiled warm water and sixty grams of natural honey. One hundred and fifty grams of the resulting liquid must be drunk in three doses. The first results can be seen in a week.
Herbal infusions. For one teaspoon of mint you will need a glass of boiling water. The grass is poured in and allowed to brew for about twenty minutes. Take half a glass of infusion twice a day. To improve the taste a little, you can add a teaspoon of honey.
An infusion of valerian is also effective. To prepare it, take two tablespoons of dry crushed valerian roots and pour two glasses of cold water, and then put on fire. Bring to a boil, remove from heat and let stand for about twenty minutes. The resulting strained infusion is taken twice a day. At one time you need to drink half a glass of the product.
Chamomile is brewed like regular tea. For a bath you need to pour 3 heaped tbsp. spoons of dry herb in 500 ml of boiling water, let stand, filter out the herb fragments, and add the remaining liquid to the bath.
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Many of them recommend using infusions of mint and valerian, as they help well. Parents are also advised to regularly give their child honey water before bed. Because it calms the baby, normalizes sleep, and relieves anxious thoughts. Even mothers of healthy children who have never suffered from neuroses recommend giving this water. It won’t be able to do any harm, but it will be a good preventative against neuroses and other mental disorders.
Also, in their reviews, parents speak well of the psychologist’s sessions with their child. Some mothers note that consultations with a specialist helped them establish a trusting relationship with their baby, which had a beneficial effect on the microclimate in the family.
Folk remedies
To combat the pathological process, the use of traditional medicine is allowed. They are not only effective, but also safe, which allows them to be used for the treatment of a wide range of patients. You can prepare medicines using a variety of folk remedies.
- Patients are recommended to drink honey water . To do this, take a glass of water at room temperature, in which it is recommended to dissolve a spoonful of honey. After thoroughly mixing the composition, it is taken orally. If the pathological process occurs in the summer, then the child is recommended to walk barefoot on sand, earth and grass.
- To combat nervous tension and stress, it is recommended to use a medicinal bath . It is recommended to add sea salt to it first. You can also prepare infusions based on mint and lavender. To prepare medicines, it is recommended to use pre-crushed and dried above-ground parts of plants.
- Lavender and mint are mixed in equal quantities. 8 tablespoons of raw material are poured with 3 liters of boiling water and infused for 2 hours. After this, the product is filtered and added to the healing bath.
- Patients are recommended to take decoctions internally. , motherwort, centaury, hawthorn, valerian root, and mint are used In order to prepare the medicine, you need to take dry and crushed raw materials. A tablespoon of any of the herbs or their mixture is poured into a glass of boiling water. The medicine is simmered in a water bath for several minutes, after which it is removed and infused until it cools completely. After filtering, the medicine should be taken orally in half a glass.
- Oat grains with pathology are characterized by a high level of efficiency. It is recommended to wash the raw materials thoroughly using cold water. After this, it is filled with clean water and boiled until half cooked. After straining, a teaspoon of honey is added to the broth. The drug is taken throughout the day in small portions. The daily dose of the drug is 1 glass.
Despite the high effectiveness of traditional medicine, it is recommended to consult a doctor before using them, which will eliminate the possibility of developing undesirable effects.
Scold or not
Some mothers and fathers, when they notice obsessive actions in a child, begin to scold him for it. You shouldn't do this. If a child bites his lips or bites his nails, it means that at that moment something is very bothering or frightening him. Try to talk to him calmly, ask him what made him so sad. There is no need to scold him for other movements or actions. After all, they repeat themselves involuntarily.
Give your child more time, limit his time at the computer and in front of the TV. It will be better if you spend time as a family. You can go to the park or go out into nature together; in the evening, invite your child to play a board game or draw a picture together. He will be very happy to do things with mom and dad. This will certainly benefit family relationships. Such actions often bring closer not only children and parents, but also mom and dad.
Obsessive behavior after stroke
A stroke is a disruption of blood circulation in the brain that results in necrotic damage to nerve cells. Recovery from a stroke is a long process, during which a person will need to relearn basic things - talk, walk and even eat. This condition takes a toll on the patient’s psyche. As a result, it is not at all uncommon for obsessive behavior to occur after a stroke. In this case, a person often simply refuses to make any efforts to improve his condition. It seems to the patient that everything should go away on its own. A person is often completely confident that he can return to his previous life without any problems. When faced with failures, the result is deep depression and nervous breakdowns. This affects not only the patients themselves, but also their loved ones, who are unable to provide proper assistance on their own. Patients require 24-hour medical supervision. The patient needs the help of a qualified psychotherapist and psychologist, since difficult work lies ahead, the goal of which is to restore the person’s desire for life and the desire to achieve more and more success. Drug treatment for obsessive-compulsive disorders is used quite rarely, since a person under the influence of anidepressants loses the so-called “fighting spirit”. The work is carried out mainly in the form of dialogue with the doctor.